For me information is power. Getting advice is good only if it is listened to. Use the net to look up help/support, find a lawyer, seek advice. Go here and look around.
http://www.fladivorcelawblog.com/
Or click this google search link and starting from the top read all you can. Make notes and find people to network with who can help you.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q...Bchild+support