I spoke to my ex husband about this ( he is my sons biological father & has been an addict most of his life. He has been clean for 5 yrs now ) he told me not to have any contact with him whatsoever until he was in a program with a sponsor. He said the reason my AS is angry with him is cuz he sees through him. He told me AS told him in confidence that Friday nite he wanted to have a fews beers & that he had a date. My ex said if he was serious about his recovery he would not be doing this. I am going to have to tell my AS not to call me anymore etc etc until he is in a program. I KNOW my ex is right about this. With his background he knows better than I do.
Now I am going to have to speak to my AS & tell him..............I dread it but I believe its something I must do if AS is ever going to get into recovery.