Marle,
Trazadone is an old timey antidepressant, not used much anymore. However, another one of it uses is to help induce sleep and it IS NOT addicting. They used it w/ kasey at the ranch and I had the MD explain it to me.
I take depressions meds (runs in my family) and also anxiety med. Stress will kill you as quick as a heart attack!
I agree 100%, no matter how much we let go, they are still out child and it tears at our very being.
You and megan are always in my thoughts and prayers.
love,
susan