Wait a minute. I think that snooping while dating someone new 'to get to know them better' is a problem. I totally understand being in a relationship and searching through their wallets. Two different scenarios.
I can't tell you how many hours I spent searching this apartment for Bob's bottles. It's crazy and I couldn't stop. You can't hide a bottle in a wallet.
I did spend one afternoon trying to access his various email accounts.
I checked his backpack all the time. That's how I found out he was carrying a bottle all the time. The majority of his mail from his post office box was in there.
I also had access to his checking account statements online. Since we were never hurting for money I mainly just checked it when I was out of town, or the recent time he was missing.
Can I be in the club now?? Please, please, pretty please?