I am very uncomfortable with him driving with the kids...the current plan is a temporary order that he agreed to but now he is going to go get a lawyer to fight the driving issue. The current temporary plan is more 'freely stated' because I wrote it and he agreed in one of his cooperative moments. It says he will not drive them until we mutually agree that it is safe. That wording allowed me to use my gut as a guage, now that lawyers are involved, I'm sure the wording will need to be more objective rather than subjective.