Hi Bonbon.
I know why you didn't say anything. It's all that anti-codie training. You have taken letting go to new heights. LOL
Well... since it just passed, he wasn't looking to see when your birthday is. That is the only good excuse I can think of to peek into someone's wallet. So to me it wouldn't matter really why. A violation of privacy would be enough for me to give him the old heave-ho, without it being a robbery. But that's the codie training, too.
I don't think you're overreacting.
HUGS!
Smoke