Thanx Hope, Marle, and NotSleeping,
Marle I know you care & thats why you take the time to answer my posts & give me your best advice. When I ask for help I never get annoyed or angry when someone gives me time & their best advice.
I DON'T know why I let it bother me. He has been using for 20yrs & going in & out of jail for the last 6.
Everyone in our family has bent over backwards to help him so many times I have lost count.
I am just so sick of it. He never " needs " us when he's doing wrong, then he has " friends " and a way to do what he wants. It is only after he gets himself into trouble that he starts wanting his family.
I just wonder whats wrong with me & why I continue to feel bad for him ?