Dear Lady & Elana, Thanx!!! I had just about decided not to do it. Reading your posts helped.
Elana, I know it would be too much for me & he is 40 yrs old. He never calls & asks me when he is going to use etc, let him handle his own life, thats the only way he will ever learn anything. I KNOW he will find another way & I am not going to let guilt lead me to do something I know I shoudn't & there are alot of reasons I shouldn't.
Thanks for the help,
Love,
Diane