I agree. Remember NO is a complete sentence. Diane, you have to stop feeling sorry for a grown man that continues to make bad decisions. Let him find another way to get help. I am sure with all the inovative ways he used in the past to get drugs, he can come up with his own solution. You know that I am saying this because I care about you and your health is more important than your son getting a few clothes. It is in the struggle that we learn strength. Let him learn. Hugs, Marle