Originally Posted by
ConcernedBigSis 
I'm to the point now where I'm thinking of going and talking to a lawyer to get the paperwork rolling for legal seperation. I NEED TIME to figure everything out, TIME to myself and he's just not allowing that to happen.
If you are really serious about having no contact with him, then you may need to do this and include a restraining order. Even with an RO my exah didn't get the picture for a long time. It's all about boundaries and what you will or will not allow in your life. Addicts don't have a clue what a boundary is because they don't have any of their own.
Take care of you and the kids; if that means making it legal, just do it.
((((hugs)))