Choices? Yes, I do have some and going to have to think them out for a while-before I do anything. Just so much ahs happened right before I found this site, a true lifesaver!!!!! Lot of advice-all positive. Cannot say I hate him for what he has taken-time to let go? Getting over this mess is the most hard thing I have ever done!!! I just flat give up! No more phone calls, no more police-no moew attoenys-just flat give up.