Originally Posted by
happysoul 
.i almost feel like i've failed because i can't do something and i don't want to feel like i "owe" anyone anything.
Oh my.........you hit it right on the head. I feel like i've failed if I can't manage on my own!! The thing of it is........I hate feeling that way too, I just don't know how not to!! I'll get myself all in a tizzy over it.