For the record, my father's behavior will end the marriage of my brother and sister-in-law. Plus, there's a child involved. While I don't think my dad would rape a boy, I just feel I have to do something. I wish someone had done something when it was me.
It's just so hard trying to acknowledge that there is nothing i can or should do but to work on fixing me and once I'm better, I'll be able to see clearer.