Originally Posted by nevergivingup

You see, they prey when they know that you're weak and confused and have alot going on and alot on your mind. They get you into that thought process that when they know that you're at a point where there's some desperation in your life, and then they start talking this way. I know with xabf it was like he would want until I was already at a point where I felt sick, was losing my mind over everything that was going on, and then he'd start talking to me about some nonsense. You almost start to feel like you're being brainwashed because they push and push and push until your thoughts are no longer your own, and you're making decisions that you'd normally have better judgment about and then you snap out of it, and you're like.... why in the h*ll would I agree to that!?!? There's no real reason that you need to talk to him at this moment, and I would put a boundary in place that you're only willing to talk about things that are specific to kids (or whatever)!