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Old 07-20-2007, 07:46 PM
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teke
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never, i know how you feel, and i don't think you are wrong for feeling the way that you do, but what do i know?

i payed my daughters way when we went on vacation to fla. one yr, cause she just didn't have any money, she was living with me at the time and the rest of the adult kids and their families were pooling together for this vacation and she would have been the only one of them who couldn't go, so i payed her total expense. well on the way home, they decided to stop at one of the wholesale warehouses, and i couldn't believe that after i had spent all of that money trying to let her enjoy her trip with no money, that she was about to but a 200.00 purse.

i was so hurt and i felt used. i think if you really need it, thats one thing but if its just so you can splurge then thats another story, unless you just have it to give. but why say you need it for one thing and use it for stuff you just don't have to have? that may make me kind of selfish, but thats just the way i think.
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