(((never))))
I agree with the others...what will help her is just having you there. I couldn't think of anything more that I would want than that if it were me. I hope you and J can take some time to just relax- with maybe some coloring books and fresh playdough? ( it works for me!)
You are doing all that you can to be both a good daughter and a good mommy. I'm hoping that you won't lose sight of that. k?