Originally Posted by
kglast 
i believe it was cynay that pointed out to me once that it was very selfish of him to keep calling like that
that is a coincidence that he's suddenly felt the urge to call! i'm glad you handled it so well!!
someone recently pointed out to me that if they cared about us or respected us at all, they wouldn't call after we asked them not to. they would stay away because it's what we want and what we've asked for. the fact that he repeatedly called you tonight showed that he didn't give a crap what you wanted... and he was very selfish, indeed.
i'm proud of you!