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Old 07-16-2007, 11:49 AM
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MsGolightly
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you know, i thought that my ex ending up with the person she cheated on me with would destroy me. they live together this summer, about 50 feet from my apartment, and i'm doing much better than i ever thought i would be. it was almost a blessing in disguise. it was incredibly hard at first, i cried and cried and i still have times that i cry a lot, but i've given up. i can't change what's happened, i don't want someone back that has the nerve to lie to me or to hurt me, and every day i let more and more of my relationship go.

it's not easy, but i promise that it does get better. i told someone else today that i used to think about my ex 100% of the time. now, it's a lot less. like, 10%. sometimes a day will go by and i realize i never even thought about her at all! it took about 6 months for me to get here... and you will too. i promise.
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