Well rae. . .don't know if you know my story or not. I found out I was pregnant with my 3 yr old 1 week after xah moved in with his girlfriend. . .all this at the ripe old age of 42. . .nuff said? I really was glad I had a girl cuz I sure hated boys!! No interest really in anyone, no social life to speak of outside of aa, oh and there's a place to go find one????? Anyways, if this ghost from my way distant past whom I've always had the wondering what if about hadn't a called, probably be without still and who knows how long, poor thing, he didn't have to beg to much