Good thread here and fair warning for any of us who get so used to the life of living with an addict that we fail to see the danger to ourselves.
We had a member here not long ago who spent over a year in prison and lost her children for taking calls from a dealer, even though she didn't know who he was. It was presumed she knew of the drugs in her home, it was presumed she knew of her husband's criminal activity.
Right or wrong, the laws that allow this are on the books in many states and provinces in Canada.
It's sad, but it's a reality that too many women have had to face.
Hugs