I know it's not the same because my addict is my son, but I have found that he is nicest when he is screwing up the most. It's like he wants to try to catch you off guard. Honey, after living with my AS for 3 years, i can't understand why you would stay with this guy. I can't leave my son, but sometimes I wish I could. You on the other hand can walk away, start over, thank God that you made it through and grow through the wisdom you have gained from this horribly difficult situation. I never said it would be easy, but where do we get the idea that life is easy? Do the right thing for yourself and let him take care of himself.
krhea