Anvil...that pic of hank, the one in the boat, just change the hair to grey/red irish curly and you have my xabf. anf the more you talk about him...the cooking etc.
They are twins, except yours got sober.
I still love him, always will. Talk on the phone regularly and when we go home to Indiana we stay at his place. I teased him the other night telling I hate it when he tells me about dinner...as he eats better than anyone I know...and very little of it from the grocery. He says vegetarian is an Indian word for lousy hunter. He was having fresh caught bluegill last night.