Baffling. On another thread I was lamenting that my son is alienated and I don't even know where he is living and the sorrow assosiated with that. Yet maybe I am the lucky one because my AS spares me the insanity of having an addict "in" my life.
It sounds like you yourself need to institute no contact while your son is out of control and potentially dangerous. How quickly it can turn bec. I remember being so glad to here your son put himself in Oxford. When & if an addict gets sober, That is only the beginning. A sober mind needs a long time to work out of addictive thinking.