i'm sorry too lake, i do agree with the others, i think that you are a very good parent, and have done so much for your son. i know that this hurts and probably feels like ungrateful and just plan betrayal, try not to allow it to get to you too bad, i think you are doing the right thing to back away and protect the rest of you guys. sounds like an angry addict right now. hopeful he'll find his way soon and he'll then preciate the decisions that you have made. keeping all of you in my prayers