You can never get comfortable as long as the addict is around. My as has been home and clean for 2 months now. And so far so good. Nothing has been missing. But I'm still on my guard. When I'm writing checks to pay bills, if a check is missing I immediately start to get heart palpations, thinking it must be him. So I calm myself down, and then realize I wrote one out of order or something stupid like that. Same thing with my money. I'm constantly counting it. It's ridiculous, but sad. That feeling may never go away. I feel for you and your husband. Hopefully, this was an isolated incident and they will eventually get fewer and stop. You are in my prayers.