((((GwenMarie)))
I know this has to be painful, and I can't imagine all the "what ifs" going through your head right now.
But if thier Dad can, he will. Maybe not as well as you would have, but he will.
This may not be a bad thing to pull him to the foreground and let him have some of the responsibility while you're away.
Maybe he'll see first hand what they want, need, and the little extra effort it takes to show them they are loved.
Once you are not there to do it, he may step up. Right now, its possible that he can't see past his resentment of "having" to do it.
Maybe that was God's plan?
Just a thought
Hang in there
(((Hugs)))
Cece