"Oh Papa Tooney. We've got a Looney!" -Motormouth Maybelle from the film 'Hairspray'.
Flattery and other manipulation is so typical, but this man is off the chain!!!!
When one extreme doesn't get the desired result, he goes to the other.
I hope you have taken the steps to secure your $$. I'm just speechless. He didn't approve the parent's visit? Wha...t???
I just say protect yourself in any way possible. Financially and physically. Do you have an escape plan just in case he goes even more haywire??