Hi Bubble,,Welcome to SR,,,
When I first came here, the way the good people on the boards put it to me was that I should HOPE he moves on and finds someone else.
I thought they were NUTS!!!
I mean, what if that someone else was successful at what I failed at. Getting him sober and having a successful relationship?
I've sinced learned that A's who "replace" us are simply looking for someone ELSE to enable them. I guess that means, i was successful when it came to not accepting the BS for ME.
My low self esteem is slowly being replaced with PRIDE for myself and not settling for less than I deserved.
I hope you keep reading/posting. SR is a good place to start to find that pride
Peace