thank you for all your replys. i know you are all right. i can not stop her from doing anything even tho i do not agree.this man just scares me. you are also right that i could lose her & that is the last thing i want. my H.P. is in charge & just maybe this thing will play itself out. either way she has informed me she will be moving the first of august.i have told her how frightened i am for her & she has told me she wished she had never told me anything, that he is not like that. she is just so precious to me.please keep her in your prayers, along with the guys in my life.i was up early this morning & had a long meditation & now it is in His hands.i am blessed to have all of you to come to & check my thinking.hugs & prayers for all of you,