The hardest thing to do is let our kids go. But we have no choice. We must learn to do it with grace. I am learning to not give unsolicited advice and that must include dealings with my son as well. I bite my tongue. He hates for me to teach, preach, nag. He knows my opinion on matters, I don't need to remind him of my opinions 'cause it just turns him off any way. I think his live-in girlfriend is a selfish mean disturbed woman. But I have never said a word.