Wish I had a sponsor. I can only occasionally get to an Al-anon meeting because of schedule conflicts. It's only on Monday night, one meeting a week for the entire county we moved to. At least 3 AA meetings most days, but only one Al-anon per week...crazy. I guess all the codies is this county are doing better than I am.
Yes, what is he bringing to the table? The whole conflict started with me asking for a better relationship now that he's in recovery and more help with the business. How dare I have needs?! He's threatening to separate or divorce me now (since I caught him drinking?) MY boundry set 5 weeks ago was that I would leave him if he started drinking again. He switched the tables on me and all of a sudden I feel terrible and I'm clinging to him. How did this happen???? I feel so much better with the responses I've received today. Thanks for the perspective.