Heather that is an awesome letter. i hope you reread it as you need to.
"Another person's compulsive behaviors or abuse or mistreatment of you is NOT a reflection of your value, but rather, a reflection of THAT person and THEIR STUFF. NOT yours. It your busines only to control YOU and make YOUR life full and rewarding"
iam a recovering addict and this speaks volumes to me. i also hope that the people i have wronged in the past can realize that what i did to them in my addiction was of my own and not theirs.
thanks, SEAN