I agree with everyone. As an addict in recovery however, I must add it takes a while to get a grip on reality again! When my wife and I reconciled after I went into recovery, we agreed I must stay out of the house for 3 more moinths. I insisted on thios because I was still all over the place. I still wanted to be with her, but could not trust myself, I was still raw, hurt, and emotionally screwed up. I still am a bit emotionally screwed up (a bit) but am really working recovery. I know myself better, and am making amends.
I am not suggesting you accept anything that compromises you!
Just that hge may need more time to heal.
And like Dolly Do says, some of us are so damaged, there really is not much to work with after all the drugs. Bui not all of us.
Trust yourself, and do what is best for you