welcome to S.R., you have come to the right place to get help for YOU. there is not a thing your can do for your boyfriend.there is NOTHING anyone else can do.let go or get dragged.an addict is going to use no matter who or what is against it.that is what addicts do.someone ahead of me told you to read all the stickys at the top of the forum,read them and all the other post. it is a long hard road for an addict & any one involved with one.they are the only one who can help & they are always an addict.it is his problem & only he can "fix" it.let go,focus on yourself & what is good for you,your children & your husband.i am sure this is not what you want to hear. keep coming back, my prayers are for him,his family,you & yours,hope