I at one time was the one to break up a relationship thinking I could change him he would NEVER choose me over drugs and I was so much better than his daughters mom. Guess what he still used but instead he dragged me through the mud told me his lies made me believe what he said blah blah blah blah....... LIES ALL LIES
I couldnt make him clean I couldnt make him not use I couldnt change his mind I couldnt change him......... Thats an addict they do what they want and dont care who they hurt in the end....
If I were u listen to what he said and realize u are in a relationship that is unhealthy its more of a rescuer and rescuee and u cant rescue him only he can do that. Dont waste your time if he wants to use there is NOTHING u can do to stop him leaving your husband and family nope that wont keep him clean either. If he wants to he will if he dont he wont. Nothing u can do.....