IMHO I would rather keep a relationship with someone I loved than be right. Being right can be very lonely if your not careful. Think of all the time & thought you now have in this whole thing about who sat where. The only person I see loosing out is you. That is alot of time and energy that could have been put to other things, like having fun & enjoing your brother. I really don't mean to sound harsh, but in the big scheem of things...