Hey.. Prayers going up. Now.. TAKE A DEEP BREATH because here is the deal as I see it. HE KNOWS that if he takes you to trial HE MAY WIN because he perceives you as WEAK. He figures you will break down rather than face him in court.. his area of comfort. That is manipulating you.
If it were me, (and it is not, it is you), that alone would make me so angry.. that manipulation would make me so angry.. that I would stand up to him come h*!! or High Water!
If you are having anxiety, go see a doctor and do NOT contact AH. Do NOT respond to his calls. Document and print and save.. which means you don't have to read, listen or respond.
He is manipulating you to get back in the house, get his old way of life back (with drugs) and all the rest. Now it also seems he was CHEATING on you with his SECRETARY? Hoo Boy!
This guy is really making me feel aggravated!