Thank you for the replies here. I have talked to my sponsor, my mom, and I even talked to my therapist from when I was in rehab. All have agreed that they believe it would be benificial for the kids to come see me, Not every weekend, maybe just once a month. I also have set up that my kids can go talk to my theripist if they need too. I did talk to my girls, and they want to come. I will wait till after Ive been there a few weeks to make sure its a place for them to come. I will also call the place where I will be going to talk with someone to see how to go about having them come and what kind of setting it will be. Now I just have to set my mind toward what is coming, so I can handle this with some dignity and respect.