((Drainedwife))
If he not working an active program of recovery, then it is my understanding that the disease is still talking for him. As others say here he is "quacking". With the poor me, you did this to me, blah, blah, blah.
Just remember you are doing what is right and healthy for you and your children. Try to tune him out or if possible not even talk to him when he goes to that same ole "quacking".
It is ok to have a place that is safe for you and your children.
Take care of you,
Rita