I am no expert but I do have experience .................my AH let his life and addiction get out of control...............lost everything and went to prison for 41/2 years..............went thru a program got clean......................married me and 6 years later was using again.......now he is in rehab and guess what...........
hes not sure he loved me.............funny thing is.....before rehab he said ...........he loved me more than anything..........all those years I was important our life our future............he just knew thats what he wanted
But hes an addict and even years later what he wanted was drugs...........but today he wants to be clean and it seems that that entails finding himself................
so my word of advise is .....that you keep in mind that an addict is always an addict.............and life can be good for years sometimes then revert back..................just be careful and make sure you can live with that .............(((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))