Originally Posted by
drainedwife 
to be honest with all of you i think i check the emails and voice mail messages in hopes that i will read or hear something that indicates that he does finally get it.....iam still holding on to that dream
I went thru this for months after XABF moved out... and then I found out he had been cheating and lying the extent of which still amazes me.
Even now that he is not around and I never hear from him I still hope, for him, that he finally gets it.
After 40 years of drug use that is unlikely, but I hope anyway.