Hi doctorswife! I just wanted to add to make sure that you are keeping yourself financially secure just in case you need to leave. I saw that you are no longer going to keep a check on ATM receipts and wanted to make sure that you had some control over your finances and that you have enough money to leave if you choose to.
Believe me when I say that addiction can progress and that addicts will blow through whatever cash they can find without regards to whether or not it was for the house payment, car payment, etc. and then leave you to pick up the pieces.
Just be aware. (((((doctorswife))))
oh yeah! Do make sure that you get a copy of Codependent No More....its really an eye opener.