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Old 06-17-2007, 01:03 PM
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Lithloren
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(((Kodris)))

Originally Posted by kodris View Post
I've had a bad couple of days guys theperson i knew as Alicia has practically destroyed my self esteem today with th most horific e-mail I think I've ever recieved, I cant even get upset I feel that numb!
The best thing you can do right now is give her S P A C E.

You read her diary. She already knows she needs help. She already knows she is in trouble. She cannot focus on her life's problems with you distracting her with YOUR NEEDS. Check in your area for Naranon or Alanon meetings. Read this board as often as you can. Let other people who understand what is happening to you help you with YOUR NEEDS. Alicia cannot do this for you right now.

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