You are showing great strength and courage...I know this is difficult but you are doing all you can to protect yourself and your children. Staying isn't going to be what it takes for him to choose recovery...he needs to make that choice on his own and for himself. I think you are wise to take the actions you are taking...A man who will openly violate court orders has very limited impulse control. Keeping yourself and your kids safe should, I believe, continue to be your primary focus. Hugs and prayers.