That's one of the tough things about secular programs. Unless you happen to live in the Bay area in California, the "birthplace" of the secular recovery movement, there is often not much to be found for F2F support.
Chiynita, glad you found the online meeting helpful. You also might want to check out the chat room at Lifering. There are a few scheduled meetings, but there are usually a half dozen or so people just hanging out most of the time. The meetings are similar to SMART. It's a good place to go if you want to have some informal discussion about secular recovery in real time. Here's the link
http://www.unhooked.com/chat/index.html