Please dont think this arrogance I dont have a clue what some of you have been through or whats coming for me, but does'nt this seem so doom and gloom! is there no hope left is there no opptomism that this cycle can be broken and life can win over the alternative, just my opinion is that resigning to the problem is to be defeated and I am strong of will and strong of character is it not our place as LOVED ones to make the effort to stand up for our spouse's&children to help them to support them?
Please explain what is wrong with this perspective or am I just being naive?