He called again last night I talked to him for about 5 minutes. He does construction and said he didn't go to work today because he hates doing concrete work. I was thinking in my head I really don't want someone that isn't motivated to not have any goals in his life and can just decide not to go to work. Which who knows how long he will keep this job. So instead of being mad that he didn't go to work I was actually feeling like whatever - not my problem anymore. It felt good to feel that way. Even though we have had minimal contact I hope that I am doing better and making good decisions.