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Old 06-11-2007, 04:36 PM
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ConcernedBigSis
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You know he's an addict and you know that he cannot be trusted, why do you continue to question it?
Whether he choked you or not, he put his hands on you in an inappropriate way and that is abuse.
I agree with Loves, you are still defending him. By the sounds of your post you are still in denial just as much as he is.
So the porn and abuse all started with the drugs, in your opinion. Yes both of these things can, and have been, linked to drug use... but that doesn't mean they will go away if he stops using.. whether they came about with the drug use or not they are still seperate issues. And like addiction, abuse is progressive. So maybe he didn't choke you before, but what about next time?? There's absolutely nothing saying that he won't.
Honey, you need to stop denying and defending. Let it go, he's an addict and there is NOTHING you can do to change that. NOTHING AT ALL. As long as you continue to deny that he's an addict, and as long as you continue to defend him YOU are not going to get better either.
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