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Old 06-11-2007, 10:50 AM
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Truffles
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The post could have been written by me also -

My RAH did drugs when in HS & right after. When I meet him he wasn't using anything, said he never could. He ended up in the hospital from doing coke and thought he was going to die.

Well he used again - it started out as recreational but became a everyday habit. I didn't even know. I have never done drugs in my life. My RAH also use to think he wasn't a drug addict. He lost his job, his license, a ton our money, and pretty much almost lost his family.

He hasn't used in months - I cannot sit here and say I totally trust him because I don't, I don't think I really ever will again.

I agree - you need to let it go, I know it is hard. There is NOTHING you can do for him, it has to be him. He may be saying some of the things to get to you. My RAH use to play with my emotions so many times.

I don't think you will ever get the answers to your questions. I haven't to this day, and when I ask my husband today when he is clean, he still doesn't have the answers for me.

When my RAH was using he also watched porn alot.

You need to do what is best for you - don't get dragged down as kg0875 said, you have come this far - you can get thru this.
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