Sweetie, hes as much an addict as my husband. What you described could ahve been me describing, just in lots of posting pieces.
My AH lost his license, lost his business and now lives with no power. He went from functioning along time to the bottom dropping out. Hes sold all his tools, appliances in house everything in a short time, once he really started going down. With me he could ahve kept going but my health would not have. You tell me.